Our services
Matchmaking
Based of the information you provide us via our questionnaire and a 1 hour introduction consultation we will have enough information to connect you with a potential match as soon as they appear to us. Our matching criteria covers all the usual stuff, but we like to focus on, your past experience, general mindset, current life stage and the direction you would like your life to head in. Once we have identified a potential match we will send you their photograph, a short bio and the key reasons we believe you might be a good match. If both parties are interested we provide contact details and then leave it with you. Whether the date goes really well or not so good we highly recommend a debriefing consultation to discuss the experience and to see if there might have been a red flag missed or a pink flag miss-categorised as a red one. We’d love to match you with your future husband or wife first go, but people are complicated and we can only do our best with the limited data we have, which is why we encourage ongoing consultations as listed below.
Consultations for anyone at any stage.
Solo.
While you’re single we’d love the opportunity to help you unpack your past relationships with our unique perspective. Getting to know you will greatly improve our ability to match you with the right person and should increase your odds of success.
We hope that through talking to us you will discover yourself on a deeper level, which will better position you for a successful high quality relationship.
Debriefing.
A post date debrief is a powerful tool for everyone involved. Navigating the dating scene is tricky on your own and you are usually completely in the dark on what your date thought about the experience despite what you may have perceived. Most people have had what they thought was an awesome date and been completely ghosted. We want to try and avoid that situation. Ideally we would have a chat to both of you separately and use the feedback productively whether there’s a second date or not.
Mastering Duality.
Once there’s a mutually experienced spark and things are progressing, or you are already in a relationship and would like to improve it, we are there for you if you need us.
Unfortunately the skills to navigate ones own insecurities, negative behaviour pattens and defence mechanisms are not easy to come by and can take a lifetime to perfect without the right guidance. Our framework for being in the world and in particular in a romantic relationship is a clear path towards a better life for who ever is willing to pt it into practice.
Courses.
Work on Yourself.
Whether you’re single or already in a relationship working on yourself is the most beneficial action you can take for yourself, your partner and everyone else. The more effort devoted to activities that can improve your physical body and your state of mind, will improve your date-ability, or deepen your existing relationship. To further encourage positive action we have put together a list of books and experiences that upon completion and confirmation will have you added to our LILA list (Love In, Love Actualised) Finding matches for our LILA list is our top priority.
Work on Yourself with Others.
These workshop/mixers are the best opportunity we offer to meet potential sparks in our community or just speak with likeminded people who have chosen to invest in themselves in the pursuit of love. Our workshop/mixers are very casual and usually contain one or more of the activities from our Work on Yourself course.