The L.I.L.A List

To be added to our L.I.L.A list you must read, listen, watch and do enough of the below books, documentaries and experiences to score a minimum of 2500 points out of a possible 5000 within a 12 week period. During an initial 1 hour session with us, we will discuss which books and experiences will be most suitable for you and get you to the minimum requirement of 2500 points. Over the following eleven weeks we will meet and discuss your progress, offer plenty of encouragement and guidance once per week for a total upfront cost of $1200. Books, subscriptions and all other expenses are at your own cost.

Right Effort

“Right Effort is to exert oneself to develop wholesome qualities and release unwholesome qualities.”

- Buddha

Our belief is that people who begin to work on themselves using our recommended resources may in fact meet someone on their own without needing us to match them, perhaps before even being added to the L.I.L.A list.

To motivate you further and as a matchmaking tool for us, we have attributed values to everything on our menu of books and activities. The most challenging activities like the 10 Day silent meditation retreat are ranked with a higher number and the least challenging books like Sapiens, are ranked with the lower number. Depending on which books you read and activities you complete, we will give you a score that will see that you are matched with people of similar score or equal level of right effort.

“There are many paths to the top of the mountain, but the view is always the same.”

- Chinese Proverb

As the above proverb beautifully articulates, there are an infinite amount of books and activities that can help a person grow outside our suggestions and we will always take them into consideration when getting to know you and adding you to our L.I.L.A list.